MattLast Mohican said:Thought you might want to follow this.
http://forums.iboats.com/showthread.php?t=535566
She gives me crap about every penny I spend. Of course I am also hard on myself making sure I get the most bang for my buck and do a lot of my own work. She handles all the bills that's her job its my job to bring in the money. We have it out every once in a while when I get frustrated cause I don't get to spend any of it on me.blazeracer said:Dude, if your wife's gonna give you crap for blowing $168 you better get cheaper hobby. You're just getting started man.
Lol maybe that's part of my problem this is my sickness and not hers. She has never been into my speed freak nature, not my race cr, not my motorcycle, and not my boat. She is afraid of the water cause she can't swim. She went out on our old trihull once but wouldn't ever get on a tube. We used to lazy river tube down the guadalupe and comal rivers and she was okay so its not a paralyzing fear its just more of a uncomfortable fear. I have given up so many of my passions for my wife and family I have to have something that's me and keeps me sane and I think she realizes that cause I almost completely lost it one time so she tolerates me and my crazy passions.KONA said:nothing wrong with the checks and balances, CJ, Kona Girl is so into these boats that if i want to do something, or buy something , she's like yeah lets do it, lets build it, lets buy it, so then i have to stop rethink, and then say well maybe we should wait crazy.gif
ChryslerJet said:She gives me crap about every penny I spend. Of course I am also hard on myself making sure I get the most bang for my buck and do a lot of my own work. She handles all the bills that's her job its my job to bring in the money. We have it out every once in a while when I get frustrated cause I don't get to spend any of it on me.blazeracer said:Dude, if your wife's gonna give you crap for blowing $168 you better get cheaper hobby. You're just getting started man.
She has no concept of what it costs and when I volunteered to show her my budget which is very realistic she didn't want to see it. her concept is I spend $100 on the motor why do I need to spend $168 on one part for the motor. She already knows that I need to spend $200 for the re-ring kit with bearings and gaskets. I thought that would be less but its been a while since I rebuilt a complete V8 motor. I used to do it almost weekly when I was racing. Last motor I built was about 6 years ago and was a turbo 4 banger so I knew parts were a little higher on price.
Sometimes I regret not joining the army like I always wanted to be like my uncle but then I wouldn't have met my wife or have my wonderful kids. At times I regret my decisions I have made but then when I look back I wouldn't be where I am now with what I do have if I hadn't made those decisions because everything led to the next and so forth and I can't see how it would have happened the same had it been different.blazeracer said:I'm very fortunate. As long as my wife can get her hair and nails done with "our money", I get to blow my entire retirement check from the Army on toys.
Dman I am with you on all of that. I am used to low bucking it but not cutting corners on safety. I ran a 12 second car in bracket racing for years on low bucks. It was a 68 Barracuda with a built 383. I had a set of heads I home ported that if I had bought would have cost me over a grand. I still have that motor but not the car. I rebuilt all my own transmissions, motors, rear ends, front ends and sheetmetal. I had waited for a while in putting in a driveshaft loop in figured it wasn't enough torque or fast enough to worry about it then my sister drive the car and the driveshaft dropped out leaving a stop sign because the front yoke broke and that was it the next thing I put in was the loop. No damage cause she wasn't rolling along but still an issue. I had probably cracked it the night before at the track.Devilman said:Well thats part of the problem right there. She's not into it & guessing she has no concept of what its all about so of course she is gonna think its foolish or whatever. It sounds like its gonna be an uphill battle for you, but I'd imagine once that boat is running & you & the family go out for an afternoon on the lake, cruise around, swim/float, hang out, etc. it will be a different story after that.
Its not a cheap hobby by any means, but there is also no reason that it has to drain yer bank acct or run up a credit card. I'm living proof of that. :wink:
spd500 said:I don't believe in making payments on toys , and don't use credit cards for anything . I do use the bank card alot , but it comes out of my account instead of having interest and payments . I try to avoid debt on anything if at all possible , but sometimes it can't be avoided .